How to Become a Monk
Period of Inquiry
This process of discernment begins with a period in which the inquirer and the community can become acquainted. Through conversations with the Vocation Director and the Abbot, the inquirer will ask basic questions about monasticism and Benedictine spirituality to determine if this seems to be the lifestyle in which he will dedicate himself to God. During this time, the inquirer is invited by the vocation director to share occasionally in the prayer, work, and other aspects of the life of the community. As the inquirer and the Vocation Director develop a clearer understanding of the monastic life at St. Gregory's, he will be invited to spend a few days at the monastery. During such a visit, the inquirer joins in our common life, including prayers, meals, work and recreation. Such visits may be repeated, depending on the course of dialogue with the Vocation Director. Pictured to the left are men joining in a work project during a "monastic experience" retreat.
If through his dialogue with the Vocation Director and occasional visits to the monastery the inquirer desires an extended experience of the monastic life, he may apply to live in the monastery as either a full-time or part-time observer. The period of observership provides an opportunity for men to experience the monastic life while maintaining employment outside the monastic community. Observers may also arrange to serve the monastic community or one of its enterprises as a full-time volunteer. Full-time observers live at the monastery and commute to their respective jobs, while part-time observers stay at the monastery on a regular basis when their schedule allows. Observers live in the monastery, under the direction of the Vocation Director. Observers join the common life of the monastery to the fullest extent possible, attending the prayers, meals and recreation of the community as their schedule allows. The initial period of observership is one month. After this period, the observership may be extended. The observer is free to leave at any time, and the monastic community is also free to ask the observer to leave if the Vocation Director and Abbot determine that he is not called to our way of life. The observer is to review his experience with the vocation director on a regular basis. If the Observer is working outside the monastery, he is invited to make a reasonable contribution to the monastery for room and board.
Another form of the observer program is OPUS - the Observer Program for University Students. Upperclassmen at St. Gregory's University may live in the monastery, follow our schedule as much as possible, and develop the monastic spirituality, while continuing their university studies.
If after either a period of inquiry or through an experience as an observer the candidate and the Vocation Director discern that he appears to be called to our community, he may apply for admission as a Postulant. Postulancy lasts approximately two months, and can be extended up to six months. Postulancy serves as a focused period of vocational discernment and experience of our life at St. Gregory's. The postulant lives in the monastery, participates fully in the common life of the community, and meets regularly with the Vocation Director to discuss his unfolding vocation. If the applicant has lived in the monastery as an observer while maintaining an outside job, he is either to resign from that job or take an extended leave from it. In reviewing applications to the Postulancy, the Vocation Director and Senior Council reflect on the criteria described in the Rule of St. Benedict: if the applicant truly seeks God, if he is attracted to the common prayer, and if he is suited for a life shared closely with this group of men, a life in which he will have to make adaptations and contribute in his way to common work and life. The attitude of one applying for postulancy and eventually novitiate need not be one of certainty that this is the life to which he is called. His attitude should, however, be more than "giving it a try." Entrance to the postulancy and the novitiate should be a sincere attempt to determine if this is indeed the path to which God is calling him, by testing that call in the surest way possible: living the life. Since the life of a monk is a vocational lifestyle and not simply a job, there are very few specific qualifications for an applicant's suitability for the life. Most of these are based on a clear understanding of the nature of the life, physical and psychological ability to live a communal life, and a sincere desire to seek God and to serve others.
The applicant should be at least two years out of high school, either in college or at work. Due to the demands of communal living, we engage in careful examination of older candidates to determine if they are free from a rigidity that would make it difficult for them to adapt to the life of the monastery. While the same applies to younger candidates, experience has shown that older candidates have a difficult time in adjusting well. For this reason, men over the age of 45 are not readily encouraged to apply to our community. The applicant should be a practicing Catholic of at least three years' standing. His personal life and history should exhibit elements of stability, a sincere attempt to seek God, and emotional balance. He should show some promise of contributing to the work of the community. The applicant must be debt-free. An exception may be made for student loans. Postulants may be covered by abbey health insurance. Near the end of this period, the Postulant may make formal request to be admitted to the novitiate. Along with a formal letter requesting admission to a particular novitiate, the applicant meets with the Senior Council for an interview. The abbot, with the recommendation of the Vocation Director and the Senior Council, submits the application for admission to the Abbey Chapter for approval.
The novitiate lasts one year. At the beginning of the novitiate, the abbot vests the novice in a habit and assigns the novice a "monastic name." During the novitiate, novices share in the common life of the community and engage in basic study of the monastic vocation. Under the guidance of the Formation Director, the novice develops those basic skills and tools needed to live the life fruitfully.